Fact: The amount of extraordinary ladies is very limited.
Fact: We think it isn't.
Fact: We are terribly wrong.


I just met one today. She thinks she is the meanest creature ever walk this land. She
ignores everyone, looks down on everyone. She is very pretty and very intelligent, plus she knows it. A dangerous combination in itself but this particular girl also bites. She hurts you pretending that she just humiliated you in her most sophisticated manner to get rid of you. Truth is, she is eager to see what happens. She is a little experimenting child in there, she properly messes everything and everyone around her to see how it unfolds. Than she analyzes the situation, she sees the processes, patterns, happenings and finds great joy in the little chaos she just created. If you react harshly, or break and get offended, she loses interest right away. She has seen than many times over. Genius at play. Wonderful.

Don't mean to advertise myself but I had some great fun playing her game. I pretended to get offended, she bought it. It was my turn to rush on her defending myself or my points, and she really expected that. She already had her meanest intelligent little sarcastic weapons to come and crush me, but she did not get lucky with me. I completely ignored her for some seconds, than I was really kind. No sarcasm, no little back meaning to my words, merely kindness. I got her completely off guard, and used the little time gap to give the little blow of my own, before she could even smile back, I started ignoring her completely again, talking to most boring guy next to me, turning to him and turning absolutely away from her. She said something nice to me and I pretended not hearing it well, and asked her to repeat. She had to, there were 5 others at the table. I hummed at what she said and turned back to my boring little fella, completely locking her out of the game for a short time.

A smasing victory on my side, complete succes! :) She had two choices left. Get offended and leave, or get a cigarette and play on. Guess what. 20 minutes and a mojito later we started all over again...